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Senior Psychologist Edward Campos sat with 17 CyberGuards and explained to them why relations go bad or get worse or maybe why some can not get along with others.

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“First of all, you must understand most people are raised differently, or have little or no education, or worse yet – they suffer from pain, abuse or have psychological damage and scars from the past. There are no two persons alike here in this world. One of the best types of understanding for people is they need to be educated, have empathy for others, or have patients to listen to the other individual – but this goes both ways – not just one person to listen and other to speak. The worse people in this world are those that never apologize, are thankless, or those that are so proud, they never will admit they are wrong or make mistakes. These are one-sided individuals – they only think about themselves. They are very selfish. The best I can advise all of you here is to stay quiet around these people. Just answer the basics, and go about your day at work. Avoid eye contact with people that are having a ‘bad day’ or just offer if you can do anything for them – but limit your dialogue. Some people are just not interested in what you may have to say. Cut it short and do your work swiftly and without interruption. If you are a Christian, remember the golden rule – Treat others like you want them to treat you. Many CyberGuards where taking notes, and some were recording what Campos was telling them. CyberGuard 20 Stephan Morkowski asked “but why are some people so mean?”. Campos replied – “Many reasons. Some are angry with their life, some suffer from inferiority complex, some suffer with physical pain, others are full of jealously and envy towards others because of what they have – and why they don’t, and you have others that are filled with evil. Evil does not need a reason to be evil. They just are”. CyberGuard 17 Daniel Duran said “What they need is God. These people you are talking about – they lack faith in God. If they let God into their heart and soul, they would not be so mean, evil or full of anger”. Campos replied “yes. That is true. If you are a spiritual person, and have God in your life – many of your problems would be solved because God works around you so to open your eyes – and you can solve your problems with His guidance. But a lot people do not have faith in God. I know that for a fact” said the 36-year-old psychologist. CyberGuard 6 Paul Adams said “I did not come here to hear about God”. In which Campos answered – solutions to any problems cover all topics – and that includes God. If this disturbs you can ignore the subject or you may leave Paul..” Mitch Jordan said immediately “Paul, I think you represent a very small minority – and there are 17 of us here. Why do you have to close a topic only because you don‘t want to hear it .?”. Adams got up and picked up his tablet, and left. Danny Duran ran after him to convince him to return but he refused. Campos said.. Okay, now we have 16. Anyone else want to leave? All 16 said no – even atheist CyberGuard 38 Richard Mayfield. “Danny invited me here today, and I still have many unsolved problems and I wanted to here all the possible solutions to any of them” said Mayfield. Many of the CyberGuards found the meeting ‘very helpful’ and scheduled new appointments with Campos. After the 90 minute session, a small meal with drinks was served at the CyberGuard Cafeteria. CyberGuard 38 Richard Mayfield asked Danny Duran if he could meet with him later in the week in which Duran said “anytime”. Ben Hollister, who was at the meeting was talking with CyberGuard 15 Pacheco about their coming social meeting, while CyberGuard 49 Bocanegra was openly speaking with Campos about having another meeting like the one that had finished. – CyberGuard 22